O boy...

Feb. 15th, 2012 12:38 pm
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I haven't been around in a while, have I?  Thanks to all my friends here who have not dropped me.  Work, life and FaceBook have been monopolizing my time. 

Sarah (a.k.a. "da Sparrow") has been properly shipped off to England, where [livejournal.com profile] taldragon and several other of our friends there are making sure she is safe, happy and occupied on the weekends.  She is enjoying her classes, but her workload is pretty light so she's had lots of time to travel around.  She's been to London twice and she and a bunch of friends are going to Scotland next week for a few days.  She's planning on splitting her spring break time between Italy and (I think) Spain.  Or maybe France.  She wanted to go to Greece, but things are not very stable there at the moment.  I miss her like crazy, but we message on FB and Skype frequently, so it isn't so bad.

Aaron is still living with Lauren.  He's doing very well in school and at work.  She is pretty much not doing anything.  Her mother passed away in early November, which was sudden but not really.  Her mom was a serious diabetic who refused to take care of herself.  Pretty much a recipe for disaster.  Then Lauren's grandmother died a few weeks ago, so her life has been pretty chaotic.  There is a lot there, but I don't have the strength to go into it right now.  For another post.

The big news is that I am engaged.  David proposed to me yesterday morning at the train station - kind of fitting for us, if you know our story.  I was very shocked, promptly burst into tears but remembered to say "YES".  I am very happy.  He is wondering what took him so long.  Well, yeah...  Anyway, the happy event will take place sometime this year, probably in the summer.  We can't do anything until Sarah comes back - she'd kill us!  She doesn't come home until June 15th, so we have some time to figure this all out.

Yes, I am girly enough to want an engagement ring.  This is the one I picked out and David is going to get it for me.  It isn't real - well, it is real gold, but the stones are CZ.  The love is real, I don't care if the stones are fake.  It is a beautiful ring and it will make me happy.

Besides, as David says, it is just a placeholder for the important thing, which is the wedding band.  This is what we've picked out for our wedding bands:

Or possibly this:

These are handmade rings from a craftswoman in Vermont.  They are very suited to us. 

Now we have to figure out where we want to get married - up in Vermont, which means our friends would have to travel - or in New York.  We might have the ceremony in Vermont and then throw a party back home.  We'll see.  It won't be anything elaborate.  There won't be any saying "yes to the dress".  That's fine.  I had all that and I didn't want it then, don't want it now.

I'm very happy and that's what matters.

So, how are all of you?  Do you even remember me?

Hugs to all!

Date: 2012-02-15 05:49 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] taldragon.livejournal.com
awww i'm so happy for you both!

Date: 2012-02-15 06:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hopefulspirit.livejournal.com
Of course I remember you. :-) Congratulations to you and David!!

Date: 2012-02-15 06:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] halfmoon-mollie.livejournal.com

Date: 2012-02-15 06:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] beganwithayes.livejournal.com
Congratulations! Those wedding bands are gorgeous and very fitting!

Date: 2012-02-15 06:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magsmom.livejournal.com
I saw this on facebook as I was scrolling through and then forgot to acknowledge it. It is wonderful news and I am so very happy for you both. Valentine's Day, no less! Excellent.

The rings are all beautiful. I'm sort of partial to the last one, but both bands are beautiful and unique to your interests, which I think is very cool.

Yes. YOu MUST wait for Sarah. But that's only 3 months. NOt really so much time for planning and all. Pick a date and go for it. It doesn't matter where, how or even when.


Date: 2012-02-15 08:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ziyda.livejournal.com
Wonderful news : ) - Enjoy this time!

Date: 2012-02-15 08:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] queenmabwords.livejournal.com

Date: 2012-02-15 09:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pasticcio.livejournal.com
Congratulations to you both!

I absolutely love the wedding bands you've chosen .. they're perfect. Nice to see you back in LJ land!

Date: 2012-02-15 11:00 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] max-boma.livejournal.com
Let me get this straight:

you're more worried about what to wear to my wedding than to your own? Is that what you just wrote?

I'm so happy for the two of you!

Date: 2012-02-15 11:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ldygwynedd.livejournal.com
Congratulations, sweetie. So happy for you both. :)

Date: 2012-02-16 12:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gonzai55.livejournal.com
Yay for the two of you!

Date: 2012-02-16 01:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] firesign10.livejournal.com
Congratulations again! Those bands are really lovely.

Yay for seeing you over here again :-)

Date: 2012-02-16 02:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] supermatt41.livejournal.com
I'm so thrilled for you! Congrats!! If you don't post pics of the wedding you're in big trouble!

Date: 2012-02-16 03:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dayglow.livejournal.com
Congratulations! I'm glad that he finally proposed :)

Date: 2012-02-16 03:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] padiwack.livejournal.com

Great to read your post. I have missed you here!

Date: 2012-02-16 04:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spiralflames.livejournal.com
woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! congrats! i love the vermont rings!!

Date: 2012-02-16 05:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mhaithaca.livejournal.com
Yay! Congrats to you both. I love the rings. :-)

Date: 2012-02-16 06:21 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] cdayzee.livejournal.com
Congratulations!! I'm glad you're happy!

Aww! Jealous of Sarah's wonderful opportunity!!

Great to see you posting!

Date: 2012-02-16 08:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fried-pearl.livejournal.com
Actually, I was wondering where you had gone. Congratulations on your engagement! That is big news, indeed.

Date: 2012-02-17 10:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zagella.livejournal.com
Sending you both a zillion congratulations. The best part of this post is: "I am very happy" - what more could anyone wish for :)


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